Showing posts with label Telling stories. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Telling stories. Show all posts
Wednesday, October 16, 2019
The Goddess in Bulgaria
This is very similar to what Frau Holle does in the Grimms’ tale of the same name, and like Frau Holle, Baba Marta is a folk manifestation of the ancient fertility mother goddess.
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Saturday, March 21, 2015
The Meaning of Human Existence
by Jack McKeon
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| illustration by Arthur Rackham |
A couple of
months ago, I read a book by biologist Edward O. Wilson modestly titled “The
Meaning of Human Existence”. In it,
Wilson makes the case that we are a “eusocial” species – one that cooperatively
raises its young across multiple generations and which divides labor so that
members must sacrifice some personal reproductive success for the success of
the group. There are, he says, about 23
such species, primarily insects (bees, ants, termites), a couple of African mole
rats, and us. We’ve attained this status
by the adaptation of our ancestors to meat eating, which favored a more stable
form of life than our previous wandering.
The “nest” or campsite developed, becoming the focus of social
life. Work became divided and complex
and the community cared for the children.
Aiding this
eusocial development was a genetic disposition to be insatiably curious about
ourselves and each other. This developed our sensitivity to the non-verbal
messages put out by others, enabling us to interpret situations and anticipate
the future. This function was further aided by the development of spoken, then
written, language and the creative arts in general.
… the creative
arts… are… in an important way just the
same old
story, with the same themes, the same archetypes, the same emotions.
….
The function of
anthrocentricity – fascination about ourselves – is the sharpening of social
intelligence, a skill in which human beings are the geniuses among all the
earth’s species…a state of intense, even obsessive concentration on others has
always enhanced survival of individuals and groups. We are devoted to stories
because that is how the mind works –
a never ending wandering
through past scenarios and through alternative scenarios of the future.
It struck me that what we do is at the center of
this process, not only in the actual act of telling stories but in the content
of what we tell. One of the consequences
of our eusocial standing is a conflict between the individual’s drive for
personal genetic success and the opposing need of the success of the
group. This is a conflict that has
plagued us throughout our history and is playing out now in our own politics.
Our
stories, more often than not, deal with just this conflict. Take the Grimms’
“The Golden Bird”, which I recently told at the
Morris County Juvenile Facilities. This
is a story with the typical three brother conflict. The older two brothers, faced with the task
of first identifying and then locating the bird, indulge their desire for sleep
when they should be watching, and then, trusting to their “cleverness”, ignore
the good advice of the fox that would have deprived them of some personal
satisfaction. So they get stuck living
for pleasure and abandoning all responsibility towards a greater good. Eventually they end up on the gallows – an
interesting response of group control over the excessive individual – and are
rescued by the more other-oriented youngest brother, only to resume their selfish,
disastrous, behavior.
This youngest
brother, on the other hand, as is usual in these cases, assumes the
responsibility of watching through the night and heeds the advice of the fox to
avoid the snares of the Inn of pleasure and assume the humility of the dark,
quiet inn. In this way he attains the
invaluable assistance of the fox. He pays attention for the good of all, at
some discomfort to himself, at least this time.
(Other third sons gain helpful assistance by engaging in generous,
socially conscious sharing of food or information.)
The
youngest brother is not without flaws, however, mainly an inability, shared
with his brothers, to accept the humble when the grand is available. He is still trapped by a desire for “show”
that each time arouses the community and lands him in prison. Each time he is given a reprieve by the
various kings – the social authority – if he can only bring something further
that might be useful for the community.
Even his final task, accomplished by the fox, of removing a hill
blocking the king’s window is to enable the king to see further, an increase in
power rather than wealth. By the end,
the youngest brother has obtained the animal power and energy of the horse, the
spirituality of the bird and the life asserting force of the
anima/princess. However, they are
usurped for personal gain by the older brothers and ultimately do not function
in a positive way. Only by approaching
them with humility, as the youngest does in the guise of a beggar, can they be
persuaded to sing, eat and be joyful. The youngest son then becomes heir to the
throne, the new social condition.. The
individual has integrated in himself all that can make him whole in such a way
that he blesses and unifies the kingdom at large. The apparent conflict between individual and
society is resolved and everybody wins.
Except the elder brothers who are put to death. While this doesn’t actually address the
biological imperative of the individual to reproduce personal DNA at all costs,
one can imagine that prince and princess will have lots of children in a manner
sanctioned by society.
It’s nice
to see us storytellers on the front lines of this eons old and ongoing battle
for civilization. I think of last year’s
workshops with the 6th grade at Frelinghuysen in which we told
stories and ran exercises about the benefits of community. Our stories work towards a socialization that
traditional societies accomplished more forcefully and sometimes brutally.
What about
the fox?
Our stories about animals
require human like emotions and behavior understandable with well worn
guidebooks of human nature. We use
endearing animal caricatures including those of even tigers and other ferocious
predators to teach children about other people.
I think
there’s more to what we find in the animals in tales, particularly the helpful
creatures like the fox. Part of this
fascination is our intuitive connection with animals which we lose as we become
civilized. Our houses are filled with
animals, not, I think, just for companionship but because we need that connection,
however domesticated. It’s fascinating
to watch my Aussie do her best to herd and control my two cats, or to listen to
the guttural noises the cats make as they watch the birds out the window. We
need to be close to them to be reminded of who and what we are. The animals in story speak with that inner
voice that resides deep in our brain.
They are us. We are at our best
when we can listen to these foxes, who, perhaps ironically, always put us onto
the difficult and uncomfortable road towards civilization. But if we listen we can experience, as at the
end of “The Golden Bird”, the transformation of animal to civilized being.
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| illustration by Jamie Mitchell |
Monday, February 16, 2015
Stories that Resonate Deeply
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| Illustration by H.J. Ford |
I love stories – who doesn’t? It’s why I became a storyteller. And with told stories, I love the time-out-of-time feeling that happens when teller and listeners make the story come alive together. Stories on a page are fine words, but a different magic happens when we make the story appear in our minds’ eyes, when we conjure together what the youngest son looks like, how the smile beams from the kindest daughter, imagine the threatening leer of the monster, and feel the comfort of the old woman who gives advice.
I think of myself as a medium. The old folk tales come through me to share with others. It’s important to me that they are remembered and told; they are the wisdom of many generations before us distilled in a form we can understand, regardless of what age we are when he first hear them. We can hear a story over and over and it still resonates deeply for us because our life experience adds meaning to the story. It enriches our understanding and feelings about life.
Let me give an example. In about the sixth grade I became fascinated with the myths of ancient Greece, Rome, and Scandinavia. I couldn’t say why these stories hooked me, only that they seemed to hold secrets I wanted to understand.
In high school I latched on to a particular myth, “Cupid and Psyche.” You may remember it: Psyche is married to a mysterious husband who comes to her only at night and warns her not to try and look at him. Her jealous sisters urge her to kill what they say is surely a monster, and Psyche determines to see the truth for herself. But the lamp spills oil, burning her husband’s shoulder, as she gazes upon Cupid, the god of love. Cupid flees because love cannot live without trust. In her grief, Psyche searches for her husband and prostrates herself before Cupid’s mother, Venus. Angry Venus gives Psyche seemingly impossible tasks to ruin her, but, with help from surprising sources, Psyche (Greek for “soul”) ultimately is reunited with Love.
This heroine’s journey spoke to the teenage me because I wanted to find love and be worthy of meeting seemingly impossible tasks.
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| H.J. Ford, Blue Fairy Book, Andrew Lang, editor |
Years later I chose as my first folk tale to learn the Scandinavian classic “East of the Sun and West of the Moon.” As I delved into the characters I recognized the similarities between Psyche and the Scandinavian lass who agrees to go with a Great White Bear to help her family. The lass sees the bear only by day but at night senses a presence with her who disappears by dawn. She begs to visit her family and, although warned by the bear that to listen to her mother could bring doom, on her return she follows her mother’s urging to investigate the night presence—to disastrous effect. Love cannot live without trust, and the enchanted bear, really a prince, must now marry a troll. After a long, arduous search the lass proves her faithfulness and love and trust are restored.
By then I was married with a son and another child on the way. “East of the Sun and West of the Moon” was a favorite of my son, who sat on my lap to listen as I practiced telling it. His favorite stuffed animal was a white bear—for him, the bear turning into a prince was wonderful. For me, the tale of losing and gaining trust spoke volumes about relationships.
You may be thinking that not every story carries such a deep meaning, and you are right. But what I have learned over the years is that it’s not for me to say which stories will resonate deeply with listeners who, with me, make a story come alive.
A few weeks ago, my husband came home from a cigar shop he likes to visit. He was talking with the young man behind the counter, who, it turns out, vividly remembered my telling of a Japanese tale, “The Stonecutter,’’ to his class when he was in elementary school. Now in his 20s, he retold it to my husband: how a poor man cutting stone blocks from a mountain one day wishes to be greater than he is; how the mountain’s spirit transforms him, first into a samurai warrior, then into an emperor, into the sun, a raincloud, and then the mountain itself; how he finally realizes that as a man he had a power he had not understood. And so he once again becomes a stonecutter.
The story had spoken to him—you could say it had spoken to his soul—and he remembered it still.
written by Maria LoBiondo
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